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Specialities

Offering specialized individuals and couples therapy, and hypnotherapy in-person in Westchester New York, and virtually in New York State

Relationship & Attachment Healing

Cultivating emotional safety, deeper connection, and secure bonds

If you feel stuck in patterns of conflict, distance, or disconnection in your relationships, you're not alone. I help individuals and couples explore the emotional blocks that get in the way of closeness, whether it’s fear of being too much, not enough, or not truly seen.

Together, we use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to understand your attachment patterns, heal the wounds underneath them, and rebuild trust, both within yourself and with your partner.

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Common reasons clients seek this work:


• Struggles with intimacy, trust, or communication
• Cycles of conflict that never get resolved
• Longing for a deeper emotional bond
• Fear of abandonment or losing yourself in love

Healing Complex Trauma & Childhood Wounds

Making space for the parts of you that have carried too much, for too long

You may feel like you're functioning on the outside, but inside, there’s a weight, a loop, a part of you still holding old pain. Whether it’s childhood neglect, emotional abuse, or family dynamics that left you feeling unseen, therapy offers a safe space to go back and tend to what was never fully met. I integrate IFS and somatic work to help you gently unblend from protective strategies and connect to the parts of you that need care, clarity, and compassion.

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You’re in the right place if you:


• Struggle with shame, self-doubt, or emotional overwhelm
• Feel like a part of you is “stuck” in the past
• Carry legacy burdens from your family system
• Want to feel more whole, safe, and free in your life

Anxiety, Inner Criticism & the Overfunctioning Self

Quieting the noise and learning to live from a place of self-trust

Do you constantly feel like you’re not doing enough—even when you’re doing everything? Many of my clients are high-functioning and thoughtful, yet live with a chronic sense of anxiety or self-judgment. Together, we identify the parts of you that are working so hard to keep everything under control, and explore what they’re afraid would happen if they didn’t. Using IFS, EFT, and calming tools like hypnosis, we create space for more ease, rest, and inner safety.

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This work is especially helpful for:


• Perfectionists and overachievers
• Chronic anxiety or people-pleasing
• Harsh inner critics or fear of failure
• Learning to trust your own voice and needs

Identity, Transitions & Self-Expression

Coming home to who you really are

Whether you're navigating a life transition, rethinking your career, or unpacking years of people-pleasing, you may find yourself asking: Who am I really, and what do I want? I support clients who are deep feelers and seekers—people who are ready to make meaningful changes, but want to do it with intention. Through parts work, gentle self-inquiry, and visioning tools like hypnosis, we explore what’s yours to keep, and what you’re ready to let go of.

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This might resonate if you’re:


• Going through a big change (career, motherhood, move, identity shift)
• Feeling disconnected from your purpose or creativity
• Craving more authenticity and freedom in your life
• Longing to feel seen for who you really are

Take the first step towards emotional well-being.

Are You Ready to Connect, Grow, and Thrive?

At Reflect and Restore Therapy in Rye, NY, we are here to help you explore 'Who am I?' and 'Who can we become together?'

Your next chapter awaits, and if you're ready to turn the page, we are here to start this journey with you!

When you're ready

We are here

Currently accepting clients in: 
Rye, New York, and Virtually

Clients, Inquiries & Referrals please email:

info@reflectrestore.com

Media Inquiries please email:

info@reflectrestore.com

Call or Text: ‪(929) 483-3402‬

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©2020 by Erin Miller Weinstein, LCSW, CHT 

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